Tuesday, September 17, 2024

Public "Thank You!" to the George's! (fancy nancy! & richard!) -in detail soon...


 i know in advance, my next blog post..   and am very excited to share, what a wonderful, wonderful time the george's treated us too..    us, for our 'making it official' wedding, but they were celebrating too, their 18 year anniversary..

we started in the gorgeous paso robles wine country...   and next enjoyed an enchanting fishing village called morrow bay..

tbc. with so many great picture memories... 




Officer Black Belt -movie review by (sexy! & topps!)

   about the reviewers: 

sexy, AKA, robert, couple weeks shy of 60 years old:   27+ years of public safety service as a santa clara county deputy, working in both the main jail in san jose,  and elmwood correctional facility in milpitas.

topps, AKA, sandra, age 58 years old:  three time victim of sexual predators (age 6, age 16, age 17); three different predators  [details in other blog posts]

but, it is with this individual life experience; it is through this personal lens, that we watched this movie together:  Officer Black Belt

    /and for the record, i navigate to netflix for a commercial free viewing experience

*****
"WE BOTH LOVED THIS MOVIE!"

let's call it, hopefully, prophetically, a kickstart in mass media of the  'RISING of the RIGHTEOUS'

waaaay overdue..

but, robert,  (and me too, but even more so, robert) he really, deeply appreciated a movie showcasing and featuring good cops  -righteous cops

vs. the 1000's over the past, and current years, depicting very corrupt, evil, cops

and he really, deeply appreciated getting to see good cops supported and rewarded for their fight against evil criminals, vs. the 1000's of depictions where somehow the criminals actions are justified (ignored or celebrated even)  and the fight against evil is criminalized

we have both had quite enough of the fight against evil being criminalized

*****

and i, (and robert too, but even more so, me), i really, deeply appreciated this movie for how sensitive it was to victims of sexual assault

as a three time survivor, i pay careful attention to how this subject is covered in media

-how this topic is covered in this movie, officer black belt,  -is exemplary, in my experienced opinion

-they suggest the evil, for the purpose of the story; without asking the audience to witness evil, they keep the focus on the fighters of evil;   "Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!"

    [i note here, that when movie makers include the evil, vs. suggesting it..  that means they have written; had actors perform; have filmed...    and to process and contemplate that in full makes me nauseous  -there is no valid reason for...     suggestion alone will always be enough]

in officer black belt, we return at long last! to fighters of evil as heroes; not evil-doers as heroes

a refreshing reset in our current culture to be sure.

and 

we both loved the cast...  the pace...   the message...     

also loved seeing young men feeling compelled to fight crime; and the loyalty, friendships in the story

and the mentor/student relationships..

it was just solidly good all the way around.    "Thank You!" to everyone who contributed to the creation of this film

****

additional cerebral hyperlinks for me personally, 

  -after many years, and much contemplation, research & prayer, i landed on:

sexual predators should be permanently removed from society.  no exceptions.   -in this movie, sexual predators are released and inevitably find new victims

sexual predators who also kill their victims, should be permanently removed from our planet.

****

i continue to believe, for example, richard allen davis should have been put to death decades ago.  i also continue to believe, the public, the tax paying public, should know, to the penny, how much it has cost over these decades to keep him in prison;   -how many free meals..  how much cleaning of his laundry..  how much medical/dental healthcare he has received...

let us, as a population, rise in the disgust collectively, until it results in positive, righteous action..

****

have i already written? so, worth repeating..

joyce meyer, and many other countless survivors of evil, incest,   -many survivors of  many different types of traumas, 

if you fast-forward in their lives, they will, upon being healed, say something like this:

"i'm glad that happened... it made me who i am..."   /many variations of that conclusion..

             ...made me stronger...      brought me closer to God...      etc.

but, 

i remind, remind, remind:   there is no time, no circumstance, no parent in their right mind, who would ever say,  -even upon healing, and even many years post trauma, there is no parent that would ever say

'i'm glad my child was abducted, violated, murdered...      it made me who i am today'


also, i've already written, but..   remind:  as humans, we are both flesh & spirit..   when a young person spoke to me of being stimulated by evil sex scenes..

this is one analogy:  you, as a human, have biological default systems; default reactions; -so, with certain foods, your body might respond by mouth watering, for example..

if someone tells you, there is poison in the given food making your mouth water; this knowledge might not stop your mouth from watering; but it would certainly prevent you from eating it

with our spirit, with our minds, we can observe our own and learn to recognize/discern default biological settings/reactions in our human bodies and over-ride them.  we can recognize and ignore vs. non-consciously act on..

this is spirit vs. flesh; good vs evil; exercising free will all combined.    

   -for future writings:  distinguishing between weakness and wickedness; free will choosing evil


*****

also,  -going back to officer black belt..    cool how officer black belt was introduced as non-alcohol drinking, for unique reason, but comfortable in the company of...

and just recently, robert and i, put water in our vikings shot glasses, to celebrate their victory..

we do that too occasionally...

****

robert also watched a movie called ruthless..    i didn't see this one; was doing something else, but..

he loved this one too, and for many of the same reasons he loved officer black belt..   [several movies with 'ruthless' in the title, so picture here for specific reference]. 


****

rising of the righteous in the film industry...       let it be the kickstart of many more to come..

****

in Jesus name, we sure do pray..

Thursday, September 12, 2024

"SEPTEMBER!" @ Municipal Rose Gardens, San Jose, CA 2024


without a recent 'does this street go all the way through to...?' curiosity before our dentist appointments..    -if not for that, we would not have driven write past the rose gardens.. which blew us away, because we just didn't realize how in bloom the garden is in SEPTEMBER...    spring, yes, of course.. stunning,  -but we were there yesterday!  Patriots Day.. [sign of cross]  September 11th, 2024...  and utterly surrounded in blooms of every color, and gentle fragrances galore    -

and we had ourselves a very romantic, fun, delicious afternoon..     enjoying this treasure serves as our "Thank You!" prayer.. to God and everyone who contributes to gardening, maintaining, growing, pruning, cleaning, nurturing

 


 and speaking of "Thank You's!"    -my gorgeous 'fancy nancy' neighbor friend gifted me the hat i'm wearing in this picture... LOVE IT!   -and the tumbler with scripture on it was part of a mother's day gift bag given to mom's, grandmom's, in attendance at dorado church in puerto rico..   LOVE this too!

from glory to glory to hallelujah & amen. 

#vellumdays september 2024





 "Thank You Jesus!"   "Thank You family & friends!"    -grateful, grateful, grateful... amen

Saturday, September 07, 2024

in loving memory...


 we prefer to remember cynthia's birth day vs. death day; but, also..  this prayer plant inspires us to think of her every day.    amen. 

Friday, September 06, 2024

Star-Spangled Honor~ State Flower Bliss Yard Art, Sept 2024 by (sexy! & topps!) #bliss @writeousmom



                                                                          complete! last flower to create & place was the beautiful white pine cone & tassel for the state of maine..     one of my favorite (and most challenging!) mixed media projects i've ever done.  very pleased with results, and everything i learned along the way.  my "thank you!" prayer for many things







 


each mixed media flower individually hand-painted, constructed and sculpted.   the final layer of our 3 layer star-spangled yard art collaboration that started in may.   #bliss  #bliss  #bliss

extra "thank you's" here to jerry heinrichs for his alaska/hawaii state flower art contribution..  -awesome!     and solomon for sharing his drone and pilot photographer talents to capture our yard art from the drone view  -fun perspective!

  
AKA:  Robert & Sandra

  


 
grateful, grateful, grateful..     hallelujah & amen