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..for which i have no arguement.. (me!) sandra, tvgp

..for which I have no argument..   but do have questions, thoughts and insights:

it was a conversation with a young attractive entrepreneur.  and what she was explaining to (me!)

I mean the fact IS

if you put two restaurant/bars side by side   -where cougars are the demographic

and one has young attractive male servers, and the other has old and unattractive servers..

guess which  -won-   stands a stronger chance of making a profit.

   -yes, a financial prophet..    I said with a smile.

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I have no argument.

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and, God..  wanting to make sure I could not ignore...

went on to, not months, but only days later,

place (me!) in conversation with another young, attractive entrepreneur..

  -here, I was to listen to how important

or rather,

like, if one airline has attractive beautiful flight attendants..

and, like..   what happened?!   all you see anymore is old, out of shape, ugly..   or gay men.

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and in both conversations..  there seem to be an agreement, that the clientele

well,  where you have young attractive servers   -you have customers with more money; and more customers

and a picture formed in my imagination  -based on his description of the wealthy, powerful, men,

i.e., big-spenders

and the young, sexy, females serving     /their egos.. and sense of entitlement..

/and the owner..    rubbing hi$ hand$ together

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anyway..

here is my first question:

based on these truths; these facts, mentioned above:  and in a capitalistic society; free markets, and all that..   competition.. etc.

lets say you are not young or attractive; where should you be "allowed" to work?

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and here is my insight:    /and forgive, but for sake of ease,  -based on heterosexual orientation; and secular ways of being

where you have the wealthy, cougar women and young attractive male servers

where you have the older big spender men and young attractive female servers

behind the seens:

a misplaced internalized association of value as a human being tied directly/exclusively to financial wealth; a grand sense of entitlement; a misplaced idea that other human beings were placed on the planet exactly for your viewing pleasure  -why they were born..    and so, a kind of gross ego, and I could go on, but will not.      /money can come and go..   without it; of what value are you?

for the server; a misplaced internalized association of value as a human being, tied directly/exclusively to external looks and age.. (as dictated by current cultural trends)   -and, to how much money people with money are willing to fork over during the rather fleeting shelf life of great looks and young age.

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but we all know the truth, and the facts, don't we

and so,  what is that saying?     make hay while the sun is shining...

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and my closing question is this:

let's say you are not young or attractive or wealthy

... why on earth?

obviously you are not welcome here.

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In,   -have you ever noticed Jesus didn't argue; only taught and told stories, -name..

amen.

posted by SHE @ 7:35 AM