Saturday, August 22, 2015

It's not you... It's them... by (me!) sandra, tvgp

you know one of my side hobbies is defining, recognizing people who are fully evolved human beings.  and i will just bullet point: no addictions or neuroses; humanitarian; humble not arrogant.. etc. etc.   -and I'm adding on today..  that a fully evolved human being would be incapable of consciously, intentionally, hurting another human being physically, mentally, emotionally, financially or spiritually, etc.  -just for the sake of it.

anytime someone knowingly hurts another persons  -feelings,  -for my example today,

it has nothing to do with the targeted person; and everything to do with the limitations of the person doing the hurting.

when you learn to see and understand this..  the result is that you become immune to having your feelings hurt by comments, gestures, or ill-willed deeds..

but there are many layers..  many things to evaluate..

Number one is. -is it being done on purpose, with intention?   or is it unconscious?  

-sometimes answering that question correctly. -corrects everything else.

more later...   Off to work..

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