The Take Away. -for (me!) sandra, tvgp
Coworker friend: "I saw tony Robbins too.. I loved him."
(Me!): "the thing that stands out for me is how.. how my car was the only clunker in the parking lot.. there was nothing but expensive luxury cars..."
coworker friend: "so, you realized these people know what they're doing.. "
(Me!): "..that's so funny.. because that's not my take away at all.. I met people who could afford the tickets, drove expensive luxury cars.. and some who already had tickets to see him at a future event in Hawaii.. -my take away, - was like.. people! if you can afford to see him, afford those cars, and afford to go to Hawaii..
like, -what do you even need this guy for?"
coworker friend: "what I really learned that helped me, is how your brain will listen to what your body does.. so if you smile.. your brain will automatically respond and you'll feel happier..."
(Me!): "if that works for you.. if you got results.. I would never argue with you.. do what gets results. But that falls apart for me because I know many people who just wear a phony smile.. learn to wear a phony smile.. they don't become happier.. just phony."
and here, my coworker just kind of repeated "phony smile. yeah I do hear what you're saying.."
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it is my experience, observation.. that happiness, peace, contentment, joy.. etc.
-those are inside jobs. Inside work, when it is successful.. shows naturally on the outside.
not an outside job, that naturally gets reflected on the inside.
I can summon up countless people I've met, encountered along the way who look beautiful, and smile big in public..
but behind the scenes.. in truth.. they are miserable.
-that's my personal experience.. but if you get positive results starting from the outside.. and come to learn it is having a positive impact on you inside..
I would never argue. I'm after results. I like actual results. -find a path that works for you..
but find a path.
posted by SHE @ 8:29 AM
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