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With love from your hotness (me!). Sandra, tvgp

"k... When was the last time I called you handsome prince or my sexiness?"

/you can tell write away I'm on his I-pad

He goes.. "I don't know... This morning or something"

I go "CORRECT! -now.. When was the last time you called me your hotness?"




(he's still thinking.... Which makes my point without me actually needing to, see)

This is how quickly it happens

"but... You're my wife now... I call you my wife". /tries to rescue himself

"WIFE!? That's like a huge demotion! -from your hotness to... Your wife? Yuck"

- - - -

And so he asks me this morning why I think the word wife is a demotion

And without sharing actual names with you. I will explain with one short true story:


Once there was a husband and he had an important busy job

He recruited his wife to help. Hired her as like a secretary of sorts. They work together for a long while.

Job requires more help, so the husband hires two more. -younger, women

And the husband treats his two new employees to lunch.

But

He never even offered to take his wife to lunch before or after they were hired.

- - -

I have witnessed versions of this scenario too many times to count over the years

Watched the wife get taken advantage of, ignored, looked over. And starves for his attention

While the husband, meanwhile, feeds his ego from any variety of plates and bitches

I'm sorry

I mean. -plates and dishes.

- - -

Wife: Has such a negative connotation in my imagination

Who wouldn't rather be the mistress?

But. -hate that idea too

So, He is my handsome prince of sexiness. /because husband has a negative connotation for me also

And I am his hotness

/this is your friendly 6 month anniversary reminder honey

Because, "I love you!"

posted by she @ 12:15 PM